Yes, it's true, I'm known to stretch my birthday out for a good month or so. So, in the spirit of this perspective, I shopped all day with mom and Nikki on Saturday (SO FUN) and then Nikki, Tony, Davis and I went to dinner at Vespaio, and then we went out with a bunch of friends Saturday night and had THE TIME OF OUR LIVES. We karaoked and danced for hours. I had the idea that everyone there wanted to karaoke with me- so I sang about 15 songs- most of which, upon looking back, I realize I was not really invited to take part in. The truth is, I just feel that karaoke is a community event. Que sera.
Sunday was painful- not only because I was a bit hungover- but also because my throat is starting to hurt. UGH. Going to the doctor today to try to nip it in the bud before little Davis gets sick and before Christmas.
Little Davis is cracking me up these days. Yesterday my mom brought him in to wake us up- he giggled and was so happy to be in our bed...and then he toddled over to his dad who was lying on his stomach and he put one little hand on either side of his shoulders and tried to LIFT him up. It was adorable. He loves his dad.
12/20/10
12/15/10
NAKED
Last night after Davis' bath, I decided to let him run around naked a little bit. How sad is it that little ones don't really get to be diaper free that often? It wasn't really a planned decision- I just took him out of the tub- and he sort of walked off. As he did- I could see how thrilled he was to be in the buff...so I just let it be. He walked into the closet- sat down and peed on the floor. Of course.
So, since he had already done what I was trying to avoid- I figured I might as well let him be free a bit longer. You should have seen him- he was squealing and rubbing his belly- and just happy as could be- walking around with his little belly and booty on display.
I didn't tell Bennett- so he was quite surprised when Davis came traipsing into the living room naked. He laughed and then began to chase Davis a bit. Davis thought this was just the best thing ever- he would run and squeal and then turn around to make sure that his dad was still after him. Bennett would keep chasing him, tickling his little butt cheeks as he RAN down the hall. He got going so fast- he looked like he was bouncing off the walls.
It was the best. Worth having to clean the closet carpet. I might leave him diaper-less more often.
So, since he had already done what I was trying to avoid- I figured I might as well let him be free a bit longer. You should have seen him- he was squealing and rubbing his belly- and just happy as could be- walking around with his little belly and booty on display.
I didn't tell Bennett- so he was quite surprised when Davis came traipsing into the living room naked. He laughed and then began to chase Davis a bit. Davis thought this was just the best thing ever- he would run and squeal and then turn around to make sure that his dad was still after him. Bennett would keep chasing him, tickling his little butt cheeks as he RAN down the hall. He got going so fast- he looked like he was bouncing off the walls.
It was the best. Worth having to clean the closet carpet. I might leave him diaper-less more often.
12/14/10
Santa Baaaarbara
Oh my goodness- we just got back from Santa Barbara for my 30th. It was nothing short of AMAZING. Seriously- I have been many places- and Santa Barbara is breathtaking. So perfect in every way- mountains, ocean, vineyards, shopping, more restaurants than one could ever try. It was to die for.
We stayed in a little house up on the hill- so we overlooked the whole town and could see the ocean perfectly. B and Courtney went too- and geez- I don't know when I've laughed that much for 4 days straight. The trip was so fancy- so every time we needed or wanted something we'd be like "Ask Baaarbara..." in a really hoity toity voice. Hysterical.
So we flew out Thursday morning- Courtney and I consulted each other on our careers on the way there and got all of that squared away (look out GSD&M and T3). Then we drove from LAX to SB on the PCH. SO GORGEOUS. We laughed, played silly games, and talked about Kim Kardashian most of the way there. Thursday night we walked around State Street- amazing architecture- and I also just couldn't believe how many awesome national and boutique stores there were. We went to Ca Daria for dinner- the best Italian food. We were so full, we couldn't even go out afterwards, so we goofed around at the house and the boys smoked cigars on the patio.
Friday, we kept rushing around to get ready and I couldn't figure out what the big hurry was because the guys kept saying we'd "play it by ear" as far as plans for the day went...finally Courtney was like "We have to hurry up and get ready- B is getting so mad at me..." so I was rushing, rushing, not knowing why. We walked up the driveway and there was a STRETCH limo waiting for us with a driver named Roger (Baaaarbara's boyfriend, natch) who was going to take us on a 7 hour tour of Foxen Canyon vineards. WHAT? All three knew, but they surprised me. I almost cried.
So we drove out to the San Inez valley- and began the day picking cheese and meats at a cute little market. I think the San Inez valley is more beautiful than Napa...or at least parallel. We stopped at 4 vineyards- Rancho Sisquoc being my favorite- and had lunch on a beautiful green knoll. With Roger. I told Davis to invite him because I felt bad; I said he would never take us up on it. Here's how that conversation went:
- Davis: Hey Roger, want to join us for lunch?
- Roger: Of course I would.
So we drank wine all day. Went home, took a cat nap, and then Courtney and I went out on State Street and did some partially drunk shopping. We tried to get Roger to drive us around more- but he declined.
Saturday morning we woke up and went to have massages. I know- this trip was ridiculously awesome. We all loved them, except B who said his masseuse was doing some sort of wackadoo three stooges type stuff on him. Davis especially loved it because his lady kept talking about his muscles and how well he takes care of himself. Ha.
For lunch we had a smorgasbord of fresh seafood at Brophy Brothers- right on the docks. We seriously ordered about 8 plates and just shared. Then we shopped...so much good shopping. I didn't really find that much- which is just typical. When you're ready to shop- you don't really find anything...but we had fun either way.
Saturday evening we had dinner reservations at Bouchon- the most amazing little French restaurant. So good.
And Sunday morning- we had our final feast at the Tupelo Cafe and then headed to LAX. I had to keep pinching myself the whole weekend? Who gets to do that sort of thing? It was amazing. Thank you Davis, thank you B and Courtney, thank you Nikki and mom for watching Davis. :)
Here's to 30. What a way to get it started.
Pictures to come.
We stayed in a little house up on the hill- so we overlooked the whole town and could see the ocean perfectly. B and Courtney went too- and geez- I don't know when I've laughed that much for 4 days straight. The trip was so fancy- so every time we needed or wanted something we'd be like "Ask Baaarbara..." in a really hoity toity voice. Hysterical.
So we flew out Thursday morning- Courtney and I consulted each other on our careers on the way there and got all of that squared away (look out GSD&M and T3). Then we drove from LAX to SB on the PCH. SO GORGEOUS. We laughed, played silly games, and talked about Kim Kardashian most of the way there. Thursday night we walked around State Street- amazing architecture- and I also just couldn't believe how many awesome national and boutique stores there were. We went to Ca Daria for dinner- the best Italian food. We were so full, we couldn't even go out afterwards, so we goofed around at the house and the boys smoked cigars on the patio.
Friday, we kept rushing around to get ready and I couldn't figure out what the big hurry was because the guys kept saying we'd "play it by ear" as far as plans for the day went...finally Courtney was like "We have to hurry up and get ready- B is getting so mad at me..." so I was rushing, rushing, not knowing why. We walked up the driveway and there was a STRETCH limo waiting for us with a driver named Roger (Baaaarbara's boyfriend, natch) who was going to take us on a 7 hour tour of Foxen Canyon vineards. WHAT? All three knew, but they surprised me. I almost cried.
So we drove out to the San Inez valley- and began the day picking cheese and meats at a cute little market. I think the San Inez valley is more beautiful than Napa...or at least parallel. We stopped at 4 vineyards- Rancho Sisquoc being my favorite- and had lunch on a beautiful green knoll. With Roger. I told Davis to invite him because I felt bad; I said he would never take us up on it. Here's how that conversation went:
- Davis: Hey Roger, want to join us for lunch?
- Roger: Of course I would.
So we drank wine all day. Went home, took a cat nap, and then Courtney and I went out on State Street and did some partially drunk shopping. We tried to get Roger to drive us around more- but he declined.
Saturday morning we woke up and went to have massages. I know- this trip was ridiculously awesome. We all loved them, except B who said his masseuse was doing some sort of wackadoo three stooges type stuff on him. Davis especially loved it because his lady kept talking about his muscles and how well he takes care of himself. Ha.
For lunch we had a smorgasbord of fresh seafood at Brophy Brothers- right on the docks. We seriously ordered about 8 plates and just shared. Then we shopped...so much good shopping. I didn't really find that much- which is just typical. When you're ready to shop- you don't really find anything...but we had fun either way.
Saturday evening we had dinner reservations at Bouchon- the most amazing little French restaurant. So good.
And Sunday morning- we had our final feast at the Tupelo Cafe and then headed to LAX. I had to keep pinching myself the whole weekend? Who gets to do that sort of thing? It was amazing. Thank you Davis, thank you B and Courtney, thank you Nikki and mom for watching Davis. :)
Here's to 30. What a way to get it started.
Pictures to come.
12/8/10
12/7/10
Mama
I just got the sweetest little message from Laura that is a recording of Davis so sweetly saying "mama...mamamamama". I totally didn't expect it and almost started crying at work. When he says it to me, I will just die. It was such a sweet little sound to hear.
Now I'm just hoping he doesn't think Laura is his mama. Zoinks.
:) Happy day.
Now I'm just hoping he doesn't think Laura is his mama. Zoinks.
:) Happy day.
12/6/10
I Can't Help Myself
I am so excited about the upcoming holiday festivities i'm going to write another post- specifically about them! :)
This week: Santa Barbara
Next week:
- thursday: girls christmas exchange- one of my favorite events of the year- about 8 of us get together, have drinks, and exchange gifts. last year CG made us all a CD and every time I have listened to it, I think of that fun night.
- friday: company christmas party at Highball. this is a new thing for GSD&M. we usually just have kegs at the office- so I'm very excited to mix and mingle in a fun place with my co-workers. i love GSD&Mers.
- friday night: a friend's 30th birthday party
- saturday: shopping and relaxing with my mom and nikki for my birthday
- saturday night: drinks and dancing (maybe karaoke) for my 30th
The following week:
- CHRISTMAS! And this year we're doing it in Austin.
- a week off with Bennett and Davis
AND THEN NEW YEAR's EVE!
GEEZ, I simply LOVE this time of year, and I love having everything packed in all at once. January is going to be rough- but for now- I will revel in the good cheer and be giddy with excitement!
This week: Santa Barbara
Next week:
- thursday: girls christmas exchange- one of my favorite events of the year- about 8 of us get together, have drinks, and exchange gifts. last year CG made us all a CD and every time I have listened to it, I think of that fun night.
- friday: company christmas party at Highball. this is a new thing for GSD&M. we usually just have kegs at the office- so I'm very excited to mix and mingle in a fun place with my co-workers. i love GSD&Mers.
- friday night: a friend's 30th birthday party
- saturday: shopping and relaxing with my mom and nikki for my birthday
- saturday night: drinks and dancing (maybe karaoke) for my 30th
The following week:
- CHRISTMAS! And this year we're doing it in Austin.
- a week off with Bennett and Davis
AND THEN NEW YEAR's EVE!
GEEZ, I simply LOVE this time of year, and I love having everything packed in all at once. January is going to be rough- but for now- I will revel in the good cheer and be giddy with excitement!
EEK!
I'm so excited, we're going to Santa Barbara on Thursday with Courtney and B to celebrate my 30th! It's going to be SO much fun...and seriously how awesome is davis for planning this and courtney and b for going to help celebrate? Amazing. Nikki is going to keep Davis for the weekend- so that is the best birthday gift I could ask for.
So this weekend Davis started doing a few new things. 1) trying to move his hands and arms with me to "Itsy Bitsy Spider" and 2) showing us everything. Meaning, he picks up a book, he brings it to you and holds it up to your face. You have to acknowledge it, and then he takes it back. Might be a book, might be a half eaten chicken nugget- but regardless of the item- the consistency is in the fact that he holds it up so close to your face until you acknowledge his treasure.
Nikki got a new car- she got a red mini with white racing stripes. I've always thought they were cute, but I've never ridden in one. It's THE CUTEST THING I've ever seen. It's like a little toy car. If I wasn't so excited for her, I'd have serious envy. Guess it's the season for red cars because my grandparents got a red cadillac too. Geez, are we fancy or what?
Also- church yesterday was awesome. Felt compelled to post that I am really going to be trying to grow and change in this holiday season and onward. I don't want to get to the end of my life and say "Geez, I missed the whole boat. And I even knew I was missing it."
Anyway- happy holidays and I'll talk to you after Santa Barbara.
Hope you're listening to Delilah at night during this holiday season. You're really missing out if not.
So this weekend Davis started doing a few new things. 1) trying to move his hands and arms with me to "Itsy Bitsy Spider" and 2) showing us everything. Meaning, he picks up a book, he brings it to you and holds it up to your face. You have to acknowledge it, and then he takes it back. Might be a book, might be a half eaten chicken nugget- but regardless of the item- the consistency is in the fact that he holds it up so close to your face until you acknowledge his treasure.
Nikki got a new car- she got a red mini with white racing stripes. I've always thought they were cute, but I've never ridden in one. It's THE CUTEST THING I've ever seen. It's like a little toy car. If I wasn't so excited for her, I'd have serious envy. Guess it's the season for red cars because my grandparents got a red cadillac too. Geez, are we fancy or what?
Also- church yesterday was awesome. Felt compelled to post that I am really going to be trying to grow and change in this holiday season and onward. I don't want to get to the end of my life and say "Geez, I missed the whole boat. And I even knew I was missing it."
Anyway- happy holidays and I'll talk to you after Santa Barbara.
Hope you're listening to Delilah at night during this holiday season. You're really missing out if not.
11/29/10
Thanksgiving 2010
We had a great time at the Garcitas Ranch in south Texas, and a great time in the hill country as well. It was really fun to see Davis play with his cousins at the ranch, and it was sweet to picture Bennett playing there when he was little bitty. We ate too too much food, and laughed and played the whole weekend. We also got all excited about Black Friday this year. In fact, when Davis woke up on Black Friday, Bennett and I ran in cheering "ITS BLACK FRIDAY!!!" with our hands in the air. Davis didn't know what we were talking about- but he was excited! Our best black friday buy was a poinsettia for .99- limit three per person- at Home Depot. Here are some pictures- some from the holiday and some from our recent ride on the Zilker Zephyr.
11/22/10
Favorite Things
I have titled this post in tribute to Oprah's Favorite Things show this week. First I will focus on some of my favorite things from this past weekend, then I will talk about some favorite things I'm looking forward to. (Leaving no question about the agenda of this post today...facts, facts, facts).
This weekend was great- Bennett and I went to a thanksgiving party Friday night and got to see The Social Network Saturday. It was fun to go out both nights on a weekend- we haven't done that in a while. We drank and were merry on Friday- so it was nice that Davis slept quite a bit that day- because all three of us got to take naps. We slept from 10-12:30 and then again from 3:30-5:00. Haven't done that on a Saturday in a couple years now. It was great.
Sunday we took Davis to the Zilker Zephyr and he began to wave for the first time. It was so cute- very delayed and more like his arm sticking straight out in front of him- and him turning his wrist slowly. He has recently realized that he has wrist mobility- so everything that is picked up (hangers, remotes, etc) becomes something he turns back and forth with his wrist. Anyway- he loved the train. He would just sort of look around and then every once in a while get so excited that he would rub his belly (this is a new thing he has been doing when excited) or throw his arms up and down in the air.
He is more and more a little boy every day and it seriously just gets better and better every day. It sounds really dorky- but I count my blessings every night.
Okay, so favorite things coming up...
- Thanksgiving food
- Delilah and the all christmas station starting December 1st
- Trip to Santa Barbara for my birthday (YAHOO!)
- Christmas parties
- Wood burning in the fireplace
- Seeing Davis wake up on Christmas morning to all of his presents
I love this holiday season.
This weekend was great- Bennett and I went to a thanksgiving party Friday night and got to see The Social Network Saturday. It was fun to go out both nights on a weekend- we haven't done that in a while. We drank and were merry on Friday- so it was nice that Davis slept quite a bit that day- because all three of us got to take naps. We slept from 10-12:30 and then again from 3:30-5:00. Haven't done that on a Saturday in a couple years now. It was great.
Sunday we took Davis to the Zilker Zephyr and he began to wave for the first time. It was so cute- very delayed and more like his arm sticking straight out in front of him- and him turning his wrist slowly. He has recently realized that he has wrist mobility- so everything that is picked up (hangers, remotes, etc) becomes something he turns back and forth with his wrist. Anyway- he loved the train. He would just sort of look around and then every once in a while get so excited that he would rub his belly (this is a new thing he has been doing when excited) or throw his arms up and down in the air.
He is more and more a little boy every day and it seriously just gets better and better every day. It sounds really dorky- but I count my blessings every night.
Okay, so favorite things coming up...
- Thanksgiving food
- Delilah and the all christmas station starting December 1st
- Trip to Santa Barbara for my birthday (YAHOO!)
- Christmas parties
- Wood burning in the fireplace
- Seeing Davis wake up on Christmas morning to all of his presents
I love this holiday season.
11/16/10
Sunday School
We took Davis to Sunday School for the first time on Sunday. We have been watching church in the family room for the last 6 months and were excited to actually be in the church service for the good music and everything. Plus, with all the cute kids running around like crazy, paying attention was really hard in the family room. Anyway- we dropped him off at his ants class with two little red headed twins and headed on to church.
At our church, if your kid is having a meltdown, they put a little note on the big screen (in front of everyone) that says "Will the parents of XXX XXXX please come to the children's building". I kept worrying that the X's would be replaced with "Davis Bennett" but he did great.
So I LOVE this picture. How cute is that cheesy smile? I kept giggling about it and then I looked at Bennett and I was like "Wait a minute- I get why he is making that face- but why are you making that face?" HA!
11/15/10
11/13/10
A Good Day
I woke up this morning and met Stacey at the gym- we had to reschedule our Tuesday workout to today this week. Davis and Davis brought me up there so Ahmad and Stacey could see little D. It was nice and chilly this morning- so he looked so cute in his little railroad striped pants and green fleece vest.
Today was measurement day...
Usually I have a feeling of how it's going to go- today I really felt it could go either way. I wasn't feeling especially heavy, but at the same time, with guests in town from Maine, we've been eating a lot of mexican food. Anyway- I was pleased to see I lost three pounds! Ahmad was like "You're there- your body is ready to shed the weight..." so I was excited about that.
Then I went home and all three of us took a nap. It was AMAZING!
After the nap, I played with Davis a bit, and then went up to the mall for a while. I have a couple business trips coming up- and as I don't usually have to wear true business clothes- I had to go get some. It was already packed at the mall- and while that drives some people crazy- I sort of love it. Gets me in the christmas spirit.
After that, the three of us went for a long walk, me holding Pico's leash and Bennett pulling Davis in the wagon. It was so nice and cool today- a perfect day to be outside.
Oh, and I've taught Davis to hug. Stuffed animals at least. One day I picked up this little UT teddy bear, and just for fun, I snuggled it up to my neck and start saying things like "mmm, so nice. it's so nice to hug. oooh..." Davis watched me closely. I did it a couple times and then I held it out to him. He grinned so big, tucked the bear up to his neck and mimicked my sounds. It's adorable to watch. I'll catch it on video.
Anyway- it was a good, no a great day. Sometimes the simple things, like a nap in flannel sheets after a hard workout, a couple hours to yourself at the mall, and a long walk are the best things!
Today was measurement day...
Usually I have a feeling of how it's going to go- today I really felt it could go either way. I wasn't feeling especially heavy, but at the same time, with guests in town from Maine, we've been eating a lot of mexican food. Anyway- I was pleased to see I lost three pounds! Ahmad was like "You're there- your body is ready to shed the weight..." so I was excited about that.
Then I went home and all three of us took a nap. It was AMAZING!
After the nap, I played with Davis a bit, and then went up to the mall for a while. I have a couple business trips coming up- and as I don't usually have to wear true business clothes- I had to go get some. It was already packed at the mall- and while that drives some people crazy- I sort of love it. Gets me in the christmas spirit.
After that, the three of us went for a long walk, me holding Pico's leash and Bennett pulling Davis in the wagon. It was so nice and cool today- a perfect day to be outside.
Oh, and I've taught Davis to hug. Stuffed animals at least. One day I picked up this little UT teddy bear, and just for fun, I snuggled it up to my neck and start saying things like "mmm, so nice. it's so nice to hug. oooh..." Davis watched me closely. I did it a couple times and then I held it out to him. He grinned so big, tucked the bear up to his neck and mimicked my sounds. It's adorable to watch. I'll catch it on video.
Anyway- it was a good, no a great day. Sometimes the simple things, like a nap in flannel sheets after a hard workout, a couple hours to yourself at the mall, and a long walk are the best things!
11/10/10
A Few Quick Things...
I swear the mustache bash pics are coming- but in the meantime- a few quick things that Davis is doing lately. It's been a while since I've done this.
1) He is walking everywhere. And now carrying things, leaning over to pick things up, wedging himself in between things and more. Yesterday he had his first face plant- and I was waiting for the tears- but he just sort of let out a little yelp and then got back up. He has taken a few falls against his toy trunk though and has a bruise on his chin to show for it.
2) He's completely converted to whole milk. I forgot how white and opaque whole milk is. It kind of grosses me out.
3) This week we're trying to get him to use a sippy cup 100% instead of a bottle which actually makes me feel a little sad. Babies use bottles. Little boys use sippy cups. :(
4) He still LOVES books. He has gotten a lot of new ones lately- which is great- and he loves them. His favorite though is still "Super Fly Guy". I think there are several reasons for this: a) it has a super shiny gold cover, b) it has a crazy looking fly in it and c) we all say "BUZZZZZZ" when we look at it with him.
5) His favorite real foods are: waffles, chicken nuggets and yogurt. He still eats some baby foods, but he is not adopting many other real foods, which is rough.
6) He giggles and grins all the time- which I still can't believe.
7) He loves to take baths- I still can't get him to stay seated. Ugh. And his latest fixation is trying to turn the knobs. He is going to get a hot or cold surprise one of these days. YIKES!
8)He shouts and smiles each time I pick him up at the end of the day!
9)He LOVES Honey. Smiles and giggles whenever she comes around.
10) Unfortunately, he's doing a lot of shrieking again. Ugh.
11) He gets a little overwhelmed in big parties and crowds. At his party he had to go inside and relax a little bit, a couple different times.
12) Also at his party, he zombie followed Porter, trying to get as close to him as possible. It freaked P out a little but it was so cute.
More later!
1) He is walking everywhere. And now carrying things, leaning over to pick things up, wedging himself in between things and more. Yesterday he had his first face plant- and I was waiting for the tears- but he just sort of let out a little yelp and then got back up. He has taken a few falls against his toy trunk though and has a bruise on his chin to show for it.
2) He's completely converted to whole milk. I forgot how white and opaque whole milk is. It kind of grosses me out.
3) This week we're trying to get him to use a sippy cup 100% instead of a bottle which actually makes me feel a little sad. Babies use bottles. Little boys use sippy cups. :(
4) He still LOVES books. He has gotten a lot of new ones lately- which is great- and he loves them. His favorite though is still "Super Fly Guy". I think there are several reasons for this: a) it has a super shiny gold cover, b) it has a crazy looking fly in it and c) we all say "BUZZZZZZ" when we look at it with him.
5) His favorite real foods are: waffles, chicken nuggets and yogurt. He still eats some baby foods, but he is not adopting many other real foods, which is rough.
6) He giggles and grins all the time- which I still can't believe.
7) He loves to take baths- I still can't get him to stay seated. Ugh. And his latest fixation is trying to turn the knobs. He is going to get a hot or cold surprise one of these days. YIKES!
8)He shouts and smiles each time I pick him up at the end of the day!
9)He LOVES Honey. Smiles and giggles whenever she comes around.
10) Unfortunately, he's doing a lot of shrieking again. Ugh.
11) He gets a little overwhelmed in big parties and crowds. At his party he had to go inside and relax a little bit, a couple different times.
12) Also at his party, he zombie followed Porter, trying to get as close to him as possible. It freaked P out a little but it was so cute.
More later!
11/8/10
Blessed Beyond Belief
Thought about naming this "Sappy Post" as a warning- because here it comes. Yesterday was Davis' 1st birthday- which is still hard to believe. I woke up feeling sad and a bit nostalgic, which I totally didn't expect, so I decided to drink a beer while making sugar cookies (yes, around 11:00 am) to take the edge off. HA!
Anyway- after that the day was great- we made cookies, rolled out meat for sliders, and Bennett made an amazing layered cake that was to die for. Davis is so lucky to have a dad that cares about these details and wants to make everything special for him. My mom came over early and helped with everything and Niles and Polly were in town, so they took Davis on a long walk in his wagon, which was a special birthday treat. He loves that thing.
Nikki and Tony came over around 1:00- with amazing mustaches and awesome photos of famous mustached men photos for the mobile.
The party started around 3:00 and all of our close friends came and it was just amazing to see people's excitement in celebrating Davis. It was so special. I realize that when you have a baby- your love for them is just so over the top- and when you see that your friends and family love him too- it just makes you feel like your cup is completely running over.
It was a great day- and I feel so incredibly thankful and blessed beyond what I deserve, to have an amazing husband, an adorable son, and sweet sweet family and friends that want to share in celebrating our most important things. God is good.
Pictures to come in a later post.
Anyway- after that the day was great- we made cookies, rolled out meat for sliders, and Bennett made an amazing layered cake that was to die for. Davis is so lucky to have a dad that cares about these details and wants to make everything special for him. My mom came over early and helped with everything and Niles and Polly were in town, so they took Davis on a long walk in his wagon, which was a special birthday treat. He loves that thing.
Nikki and Tony came over around 1:00- with amazing mustaches and awesome photos of famous mustached men photos for the mobile.
The party started around 3:00 and all of our close friends came and it was just amazing to see people's excitement in celebrating Davis. It was so special. I realize that when you have a baby- your love for them is just so over the top- and when you see that your friends and family love him too- it just makes you feel like your cup is completely running over.
It was a great day- and I feel so incredibly thankful and blessed beyond what I deserve, to have an amazing husband, an adorable son, and sweet sweet family and friends that want to share in celebrating our most important things. God is good.
Pictures to come in a later post.
11/4/10
I was thinking...
about Davis last night at the Mumford & Sons show at Stubb's...which was great. I don't know what made me think about this- but I wanted to write it down because I hope I always remember it. I was thinking about how I hope Davis loves me best...and I started to think of the reasons why he should love me best...I mean, I carried him in my body for 9 months, I stayed up every night with him for four months, I think of him with everything that I do...and well, I AM his mom after all, and little boys are supposed to love their moms best.
And then abruptly- I had another thought. And I realized that it doesn't really matter if he loves me best or if he acknowledges how much his mom loves him and the things that I do for him along the way. Maybe he'll think that someday- as early as next year or maybe in 10 or maybe in 30 years. But it doesn't matter because I will love him this way regardless...and I know that someday he will know and appreciate it. And that's really all that matters.
And then abruptly- I had another thought. And I realized that it doesn't really matter if he loves me best or if he acknowledges how much his mom loves him and the things that I do for him along the way. Maybe he'll think that someday- as early as next year or maybe in 10 or maybe in 30 years. But it doesn't matter because I will love him this way regardless...and I know that someday he will know and appreciate it. And that's really all that matters.
11/1/10
Halloween at the Bennetts
We have a tradition of having our good friends come over to trick or treat on halloween. We had quite a few crazy characters last night- including adult gypsies, cowboys, wizards and even Richard Simmons. Here are a few pictures- mainly of the little ones simply because they are the cutest.
P.S. Davis had his costume on long enough to take the pictures- and then he was out of that thing.
P.S. Davis had his costume on long enough to take the pictures- and then he was out of that thing.
10/26/10
Seattle and Olympia
We're back! We had an amazing time in the pacific northwest- first spending a couple days in Seattle and then a few days in Olympia with Kirsten, Chad and Andy. In Seattle, we stayed in a condo that we found on HomeAway- which was so great. We were able to walk or take the link everywhere downtown. We shopped, drank micro-brews, ate fish and chips, and then had dinner with one of Bennett's teachers from high school. Davis was amazing- despite the time change, the cold weather and the fact that we had him in the stroller all day- he was such a happy little man. So thankful for his happy spirit and flexibility.
In Olympia, we played with Andy, who is so adorable. He has bright red hair and he smiles and coos already. Boy does he know who his momma is...I don't remember Davis being so attached to me so early on. He adores Kirsten. Anyway- we took long walks every day, ate great seafood, had amazing coffee and on Saturday morning Kirsten and I had a girls morning out- we shopped at the local stores in Oly and got pedicures. So fun!
Sunday we missed our flight and got home super late...still adjusting to the time change. Anyway- it was a great trip and I think we all feel more refreshed! Here are a few pictures. We really didn't get many- too busy having fun.
Oh p.s. a few things Davis is into:
- hearty laughing
- chicken nuggets
- walking
And a few things he hates:
- hats or anything he has to put on his head
- halloween costumes. no thank you!
In Olympia, we played with Andy, who is so adorable. He has bright red hair and he smiles and coos already. Boy does he know who his momma is...I don't remember Davis being so attached to me so early on. He adores Kirsten. Anyway- we took long walks every day, ate great seafood, had amazing coffee and on Saturday morning Kirsten and I had a girls morning out- we shopped at the local stores in Oly and got pedicures. So fun!
Sunday we missed our flight and got home super late...still adjusting to the time change. Anyway- it was a great trip and I think we all feel more refreshed! Here are a few pictures. We really didn't get many- too busy having fun.
Oh p.s. a few things Davis is into:
- hearty laughing
- chicken nuggets
- walking
And a few things he hates:
- hats or anything he has to put on his head
- halloween costumes. no thank you!
10/18/10
Playing Outside
We spent quite a bit of time playing in the front yard on a sleeping bag this weekend...Davis and I had gone on a walk around the neighborhood and just weren't ready to go inside. Bennett joined us after hearing us giggle and talk out front. Davis is doing lots of giggling and talking these days. His sounds are so different- it really is like he has his own language. Also- he's really become quite the ham. He does a really loud chuckle, and most recently, he's added a very dramatic, fake cry to his portfolio. He wails, no tears, then looks around to see what we'll do. Then he smiles.
Last night we went over to B's parents house for dinner- it was so much fun. We drank wine, talked, laughed and then had the most amazing Italian feast ever. It was such a nice way to spend a Sunday. And Davis was just a little gem, crawling around, scaling their stairs, and being happy all afternoon even though he missed his nap.
And tomorrow- we leave for Washington!!!
10/14/10
Moving Along
So, our new strategy is working. Stacey and I had our 4th measure/weigh-in with Ahmad this morning after telling him a couple weeks ago that we had shifted our strategy. We were all so pleased when our results proved the strategy is working! I lost 3 pounds of fat, and had great measurements on my back, my biceps and my waist. By changing back to counting weight watchers points- I achieved the same results in two weeks than the previous three months. Yahoo! It's really all about what you eat.
Anyway- Stacey did great too- and Ahmad was ecstatic. He is so funny- he gets really into it with us and was so pumped that we felt good about it and that his plan for us is working.
I don't know if he would say the same about me, but I totally think of him as my friend.
Anyway- Stacey did great too- and Ahmad was ecstatic. He is so funny- he gets really into it with us and was so pumped that we felt good about it and that his plan for us is working.
I don't know if he would say the same about me, but I totally think of him as my friend.
10/11/10
Weekend Update
The weekend flew by- but I guess they always do when you are having a good time. Friday, my grandparents came over to eat with us and see Davis- it was really fun to see them see Davis. That sounds funny- but like I said in a previous post- he has such a fun little personality now. He showed them how he could balance, clap, and even take a few steps. Nanny brought him some new circus toys- which he loves. At first he was a little freaked out by the music and sounds- but now he thinks it's great.
Saturday, Davis and Davis left for a man's weekend at Davis' family ranch and I went to see Katie and Callie in Columbus Texas. Aunt Joanne was getting married and I went to celebrate and to help with Callie in case she was overwhelmed with the loud music and everything. She was a gem, though. Slept through the whole thing...and Brayden was a little ham, running around all over the place. He looked so cute in his tuxedo! I feel like I hardly helped with Callie- everyone wanted to hold her- she is so tiny and sweet...but it was great to meet her and of course great to spend time with Katie. She dyed her hair dark and it looks AH-mazing!
Then yesterday, I had the opportunity to sleep in late...but I was totally disgusted to find out that I have become that person that wakes up early even when I don't have to. Eww. I have always said I would not be that person. With that said, I forced myself to go back to sleep and "sleep in" till 9:45. That used to be getting up early. Anyway- Davis and Davis didn't get back until later in the afternoon so I went to see a movie. I saw "It's kind of a funny story" and it was kind of great. Seriously- good flick. Loved it.
Anyway- back at work! Looking forward to a productive week, good workouts, and counting down until Washington next week.
Saturday, Davis and Davis left for a man's weekend at Davis' family ranch and I went to see Katie and Callie in Columbus Texas. Aunt Joanne was getting married and I went to celebrate and to help with Callie in case she was overwhelmed with the loud music and everything. She was a gem, though. Slept through the whole thing...and Brayden was a little ham, running around all over the place. He looked so cute in his tuxedo! I feel like I hardly helped with Callie- everyone wanted to hold her- she is so tiny and sweet...but it was great to meet her and of course great to spend time with Katie. She dyed her hair dark and it looks AH-mazing!
Then yesterday, I had the opportunity to sleep in late...but I was totally disgusted to find out that I have become that person that wakes up early even when I don't have to. Eww. I have always said I would not be that person. With that said, I forced myself to go back to sleep and "sleep in" till 9:45. That used to be getting up early. Anyway- Davis and Davis didn't get back until later in the afternoon so I went to see a movie. I saw "It's kind of a funny story" and it was kind of great. Seriously- good flick. Loved it.
Anyway- back at work! Looking forward to a productive week, good workouts, and counting down until Washington next week.
10/6/10
More Happy Photos
OOoh, he just loves goldfish and smiling for the camera! He will be one in one month! How crazy is that?
10/5/10
Happy Man
This picture is blurry- but how cute and happy is he? So happy he has a double chin. It's so funny how much he has changed in the last month. I like to think that he has always been happy- but let's be honest- if you've spent time with Davis you remember that he spent the first 6-8 months of his life with a very serious face. Sometimes even a furrowed brow. I remember thinking that in the first few months of his life he was actually frowning at me. Looking at me like "Uh, do you really know what you're doing? Are you equipped for this?"
Anyway- he is a changed man these days. I guess I've proven myself or something...ha. He is constantly smiling, giggling, "talking" and even crawling up to people, wacking their legs, and reaching up to them. It's so much fun!
Laura and I were talking about him this morning and how different he is...I can't help but think that him playing with Scarlett and James three days a week has helped him with his social skills. I'm really thankful for that. It's awesome to see him grin when we walk in their door.
Anyway- I love his happy little grin and personality. We could learn a lot from babies and the way they look at life.
10/4/10
YAY Davis!
We had a big weekend...we shopped all day Friday, with no breaks, no naps, and Davis was the sweetest little man. He smiled and giggled and had the best attitude even though he was exhausted. During the day, while in dressing rooms, I noticed that Davis was beginning to balance on his own, rather than leaning against the wall or the mirror. At one point, I called his name and he turned to me, took two steps and then plopped over. I almost had a heart attack. I couldn't wait for Davis to see...
That evening, I was telling Davis all about it, so excited and I could tell he was sort like "Yeah, that's great..." but then he tried it himself. He called Davis' name, Davis paused and stood on his own for about 30 seconds, and I watched Bennett's face go from disbelief to total shock and excitement. Then Davis took a step and fell over. It was so, ridiculously exciting.
Also, he has learned to clap. It's still in slow motion because he does it the same speed as we sing pat-a-cake. It's adorable to watch and he is so pleased with himself. He has also started mimicking things we are saying. Other than "dada" he has no idea what he is saying, but he tries.
It was such a good weekend- shopping with my mom, Moore family reunion, and then last night, we took a long walk in the perfect fall weather and then watched Grumpy Old Men. I realize more and more that it's the simple things...
That evening, I was telling Davis all about it, so excited and I could tell he was sort like "Yeah, that's great..." but then he tried it himself. He called Davis' name, Davis paused and stood on his own for about 30 seconds, and I watched Bennett's face go from disbelief to total shock and excitement. Then Davis took a step and fell over. It was so, ridiculously exciting.
Also, he has learned to clap. It's still in slow motion because he does it the same speed as we sing pat-a-cake. It's adorable to watch and he is so pleased with himself. He has also started mimicking things we are saying. Other than "dada" he has no idea what he is saying, but he tries.
It was such a good weekend- shopping with my mom, Moore family reunion, and then last night, we took a long walk in the perfect fall weather and then watched Grumpy Old Men. I realize more and more that it's the simple things...
9/28/10
Fall is in the Air
And it's amazing. Last night, while recovering from the 2nd part of my root canal (ugh), I put Davis to bed, turned off the lights, opened the back door and laid down on the couch. It was quiet, the light was low, and the breeze and smell of fall were saturating my living room.
Fall is my favorite season- it always has been. I think of fall as the start of the most exciting part of the year...and each morning I wake up with a grin because it's chilly and cozy. Today I put Davis in sweat pants for the first time. I took a picture and I'll post it later. He is finally feeling better after the ear infection. Poor guy. It was so fun to take him over to Laura's today because he started to grin as we walked up the sidewalk. He loves being over there. And I love that.
Anyway- because it's fall- we're starting to think about Halloween. The Wyrtzens have come over and trick or treated in our neighborhood for the past three halloweens and this year will be the first time that Porter, Carrie and Zach come. I love that this is becoming a tradition. It's so fun. We'll trick or treat early with the little ones, eat pizza or chili, and then hang out on our driveway handing out candy to the bigger kids. P.S. if anyone is reading this and would like to join- we'd love to have you.
I'm also starting to get excited about our trip to Washington. We are going three weeks from today. Yahoo! It will be nice to get away on our first real family vacation. We'll be in Seattle a couple days and then in Olympia a few days. I can't wait to have fish n chips, go to the local farmer's market and also get coffee at this adorable little place nearby. I imagine Chad and Davis will get a ride in too- and I know Davis loved that last time. I can't wait to see Davis bundled up in the adorable little jacket Honey got him.
Also- Stacey and I are refocusing on our work out and weight loss goals. Okay- we've been seriously focused on working out. I mean, really, I'm impressed with us. We work out two times a week with Ahmad, which is HARD CORE, and then we have been doing cardio together about 2-3 extra times a week. All of this and I've only lost 4 pounds since June. Stacey has gained. So while we realize we are in much better shape than we've been in in years, we are frustrated about the lack of weight being lost. And since it's been almost 4 months, we have been doing some serious assessments of the situation. The reality is this...when I started working out so much, I stopped doing Weight Watchers. I sort of felt like I could eat whatever because I was working out like crazy. However, in doing these serious assessments I looked back to my spring posts and realized that I was losing a pound a week doing WW alone. SOOOO...long story short, our new focus is this: counting WW points, religiously. AND doing the two workouts a week with Ahmad to keep toned, etc. BUT beyond that- we're going to relax already. Maybe it's just a mental shift- but in thinking about this and talking it through- we're both really jazzed and feeling refreshed. I have 15 pounds to lose. I wanted to lose it all by Davis' first birthday. That's probably not going to happen...but with this new plan, I plan to come close.
BACK ON TO COUNTING POINTS, WEIGHING IN WEEKLY AND PROVIDING UPDATES- for anyone who cares- which I realize is probably only me...but hey, it's my blog! The rest of you can deal with it already. :)
Fall is my favorite season- it always has been. I think of fall as the start of the most exciting part of the year...and each morning I wake up with a grin because it's chilly and cozy. Today I put Davis in sweat pants for the first time. I took a picture and I'll post it later. He is finally feeling better after the ear infection. Poor guy. It was so fun to take him over to Laura's today because he started to grin as we walked up the sidewalk. He loves being over there. And I love that.
Anyway- because it's fall- we're starting to think about Halloween. The Wyrtzens have come over and trick or treated in our neighborhood for the past three halloweens and this year will be the first time that Porter, Carrie and Zach come. I love that this is becoming a tradition. It's so fun. We'll trick or treat early with the little ones, eat pizza or chili, and then hang out on our driveway handing out candy to the bigger kids. P.S. if anyone is reading this and would like to join- we'd love to have you.
I'm also starting to get excited about our trip to Washington. We are going three weeks from today. Yahoo! It will be nice to get away on our first real family vacation. We'll be in Seattle a couple days and then in Olympia a few days. I can't wait to have fish n chips, go to the local farmer's market and also get coffee at this adorable little place nearby. I imagine Chad and Davis will get a ride in too- and I know Davis loved that last time. I can't wait to see Davis bundled up in the adorable little jacket Honey got him.
Also- Stacey and I are refocusing on our work out and weight loss goals. Okay- we've been seriously focused on working out. I mean, really, I'm impressed with us. We work out two times a week with Ahmad, which is HARD CORE, and then we have been doing cardio together about 2-3 extra times a week. All of this and I've only lost 4 pounds since June. Stacey has gained. So while we realize we are in much better shape than we've been in in years, we are frustrated about the lack of weight being lost. And since it's been almost 4 months, we have been doing some serious assessments of the situation. The reality is this...when I started working out so much, I stopped doing Weight Watchers. I sort of felt like I could eat whatever because I was working out like crazy. However, in doing these serious assessments I looked back to my spring posts and realized that I was losing a pound a week doing WW alone. SOOOO...long story short, our new focus is this: counting WW points, religiously. AND doing the two workouts a week with Ahmad to keep toned, etc. BUT beyond that- we're going to relax already. Maybe it's just a mental shift- but in thinking about this and talking it through- we're both really jazzed and feeling refreshed. I have 15 pounds to lose. I wanted to lose it all by Davis' first birthday. That's probably not going to happen...but with this new plan, I plan to come close.
BACK ON TO COUNTING POINTS, WEIGHING IN WEEKLY AND PROVIDING UPDATES- for anyone who cares- which I realize is probably only me...but hey, it's my blog! The rest of you can deal with it already. :)
9/27/10
boo. hiss.
davis has an ear infection. poor guy hasn't slept or breathed well for days. and i am on my way to the 2nd appointment for my root canal- with what i know is a looming sore throat. if it wasn't for the beautiful weather i would call this day a bust.
9/22/10
Duets with Davis
I wish I could have captured these moments on video- but I'll just have to remember by posting the details here.
Davis has been imitating some of the sounds I make lately. For example, in the mall the other day, I was pushing his stroller far ahead of me and going "ahhhh..." from high note on down. He started to do this right back to me each time I would make the sound. As if that wasn't cute enough- I was telling B and Davis this story the other day while he was in his car seat in the back...as I was telling them what he did- he started doing it again. We all laughed. He does it so soft and sweetly- trying to sound just like me.
On top of that- last night he didn't want to calm down and go to sleep, so I went in, picked him up, held him close to me and sang while I swayed with him a bit. Mid-song he started to sing along. To his own sweet little tune, of course. But it couldn't have been more clear that he thought we were singing the same song, together. I would pause and he would pause. I would start and he would start. And his little face was so soft next to mine and his voice so tender- it was nothing short of magical and completely adorable.
Oh, I adore him.
Davis has been imitating some of the sounds I make lately. For example, in the mall the other day, I was pushing his stroller far ahead of me and going "ahhhh..." from high note on down. He started to do this right back to me each time I would make the sound. As if that wasn't cute enough- I was telling B and Davis this story the other day while he was in his car seat in the back...as I was telling them what he did- he started doing it again. We all laughed. He does it so soft and sweetly- trying to sound just like me.
On top of that- last night he didn't want to calm down and go to sleep, so I went in, picked him up, held him close to me and sang while I swayed with him a bit. Mid-song he started to sing along. To his own sweet little tune, of course. But it couldn't have been more clear that he thought we were singing the same song, together. I would pause and he would pause. I would start and he would start. And his little face was so soft next to mine and his voice so tender- it was nothing short of magical and completely adorable.
Oh, I adore him.
Meet Callie Reese
Katie was induced yesterday because little Callie was losing weight. They anticipated she might be as small as 5 pounds. Poor Katie was so stressed about Callie's health- and then on top of that she only had 12 hours to get ready to deliver her- two weeks early. Luckily- things turned out perfectly. Katie was induced yesterday morning around 7 and had the baby around 12:20 after 15 minutes of pushing. Some people, I tell ya. :) Callie was 6 pounds, 9 ounces and is perfectly healthy.
She is beautiful and I cannot wait to meet her.
9/21/10
First Sleepover
A lot has been going on lately- everything from bathing in the sink to getting stuck under old toys and finding new toys (namely pots and pans- thanks Porter). But the most exciting thing is that while the dads were out of town boozing it up in Colorado at the Great American Beer Festival, Davis and I invited Carrie and Porter over for a sleepover Saturday night. A great time was had by all- Davis tried to take whatever toys Porter was playing with, Porter accidentally whipped Davis in the face with a whisk, and both boys spent a lot of time in the cabinetry, while Carrie and I drank wine and watched Glee. Not a bad night!
9/13/10
Hi, I'm Andy!
Andy Furl is here- finally. That little guy was taking his sweet time. Isn't he so cute? I cannot wait to meet him in a month! Also, in other news, Katie and Ray picked a name for baby girl Mastroleo- also finally. :) Callie Reese Mastroleo will be her name- I love it and can't wait to meet her in less than a month too. Yay for best friends and babies!
9/10/10
Duped?
So in being a working mom, though I do love my job and have a pretty sweet set up, some days it's hard to get up and go when I could just stay and play with Davis. But I remind myself that being a stay at home mom isn't exactly easy either. In fact- for me- it often seems more exhausting than work. I think that is mainly because while sometimes I dislike my packed schedule- it IS nice to have the day/week broken up. Keeps things moving.
So when I'm feeling sad about not having the "freedom" of staying home- I've reminded myself that when I talk to some of my friends who stay at home I realize it's not really as free as it seems. They don't really get a break. They don't have time to just be an adult...and I've concluded, like most things, with this, the grass is always greener on the other side.
However, I've recently seen a flurry of posts from stay at home mom friends that have now enrolled their little ones in preschool or mother's day out or whatever and I've started to think "Wooooahhh, wait a minute. Maybe it is pretty nice. 2-3 days (out of 5) spent playing with the little ones and then 2-3 days to yourself? I can't imagine."
But here is the truth- I know myself- and for now- feeling great about the days I do have and also feeling like a career woman is a great thing. It's exhausting, not gonna lie, but I don't know that I would be happy any other way at this point. So maybe in the end, Duped isn't the best title for this post, except that it truly captures my immediate reaction to this new phase people are enjoying.
Anyway- just writing my thoughts. And while I'm doing that- here are some things I want to remember:
1) Davis crosses his little feet whenever he is sitting. It's so funny.
2) He now reaches for me, smiles the most for me, and loves to snuggle- yes finally!
3) Big Davis and I are probably the strongest team we've ever been at this point- and it's really nice. We've gone through some struggles over the five years we've been married- but they have been worth it and we love being a family.
4) Little D is all boy- knocking things over, smacking things together, running into everyone with his walker...and yet he is still a sensitive little guy. If something scares, startles him, or hurts his feeling, his bottom lip goes so far out, he huffs for a minute, and then starts to cry-- unless you can get him to laugh first.
That's all for now.
So when I'm feeling sad about not having the "freedom" of staying home- I've reminded myself that when I talk to some of my friends who stay at home I realize it's not really as free as it seems. They don't really get a break. They don't have time to just be an adult...and I've concluded, like most things, with this, the grass is always greener on the other side.
However, I've recently seen a flurry of posts from stay at home mom friends that have now enrolled their little ones in preschool or mother's day out or whatever and I've started to think "Wooooahhh, wait a minute. Maybe it is pretty nice. 2-3 days (out of 5) spent playing with the little ones and then 2-3 days to yourself? I can't imagine."
But here is the truth- I know myself- and for now- feeling great about the days I do have and also feeling like a career woman is a great thing. It's exhausting, not gonna lie, but I don't know that I would be happy any other way at this point. So maybe in the end, Duped isn't the best title for this post, except that it truly captures my immediate reaction to this new phase people are enjoying.
Anyway- just writing my thoughts. And while I'm doing that- here are some things I want to remember:
1) Davis crosses his little feet whenever he is sitting. It's so funny.
2) He now reaches for me, smiles the most for me, and loves to snuggle- yes finally!
3) Big Davis and I are probably the strongest team we've ever been at this point- and it's really nice. We've gone through some struggles over the five years we've been married- but they have been worth it and we love being a family.
4) Little D is all boy- knocking things over, smacking things together, running into everyone with his walker...and yet he is still a sensitive little guy. If something scares, startles him, or hurts his feeling, his bottom lip goes so far out, he huffs for a minute, and then starts to cry-- unless you can get him to laugh first.
That's all for now.
9/9/10
Anticipation
Kirsten will be induced tomorrow and little Andy Furl will be born. I cannot wait! I am so excited for her, I can hardly stand it. And I am praying for an easy delivery- not just because she is my friend but because girlfriend deserves it.
Tomorrow- she will be 10 DAYS past her due date. She deserves an easy delivery and frankly, an award.
Thinking of you and praying for you...yay Kirsten, Chad and Andy!
Tomorrow- she will be 10 DAYS past her due date. She deserves an easy delivery and frankly, an award.
Thinking of you and praying for you...yay Kirsten, Chad and Andy!
9/7/10
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